Pill Users Choose ‘Wrong’ Sex Partners
And it’s not just the awful headline, folks. It’s the whole article. Yes, this is the worst of so-called science reporting by the mainstream media, none other than CBS News this time. This study has been going around the feminist and sex-positive webs for a little while now.
It’s a small [...]
Posts Tagged ‘sex’
Makes a great headline, but…
Posted in feminism, politics, relationships, science, sex, tagged birth control, choice, feminism, pill, science, sex, sexuality on August 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Death of a great sex blog. RIP Pretty Dumb Things
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged blogging, sex, sex blogs on July 28, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
There are good sex blogs. There are crappy sex blogs. And then there are great sex blogs. I’m sad to hear that Chelsea Summers has decided to discontinue her blog indefinitely, i.e., she’s done. This was on my Google Reader since I started using reader, and it’s been a corner of the internet where I’ve [...]
FICTION: Hipster Girl
Posted in erotica, sex, tagged chicago, coffee shop sex, erotica, fiction, hipster, hipsterotica, sex, strapon on July 28, 2008 | 29 Comments »
Update your links to here, as this is now where the story lives. Eros Monthly went down, and I’m republishing the story on my site as of now.
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I kept just missing her in the coffee shop. She was a short, anger-edged Wicker Park hipster with apple-red dyed hair cut in a bob, a little silver [...]
Hipster Girl and ErosMonthly down and broken
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged erosmonthly, erotica, fiction, sex on July 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
UPDATE: Please update your links to HERE
What to do when you’ve done it all?
Posted in relationships, sex, tagged marriage, relationships, sex on July 22, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Chelsea Summers is playing Dear Abby today to a couple of middle aged, long-term committed men, and as a long-term committed man, I think her advice is excellent, if a little general. I think the real issue is that we all develop hangups, reactions, expectations, and habits about our partners over time, some to our [...]
FICTION: The Jet Setter, Part III of III
Posted in erotica, fiction, sex, tagged couples erotica, denial, erotic fiction, erotica, fiction, sex, spanking, tease, tease and denial on July 21, 2008 | 29 Comments »
PDF * Part I * Part II
I shudder in excitement at the thought of seeing Justin again after failing in my task. In the same instant, I pull out Bethany’s business card again, with her cell number written on the back with the words “I’ll see you again sometime” written below them. [...]
FICTION: Hipster Girl
Posted in erotica, fiction, sex, tagged coffee shop, erotica, fiction, hipsterotica, hookup, sex, strapon on July 1, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Please update your links. The magazine I published in folded as a result of strange and unnecessary web policies. The new story is here
The intro:
“I kept just missing her in the coffee shop. She was a short, anger-edged Wicker Park hipster with apple-red dyed hair cut in a bob, a little silver stud on her [...]
Do jerks really get laid more, or is that phrase just an excuse?
Posted in relationships, sex, tagged casual encounters, dating, feminism, feministe, jerks, relationships, sex on June 28, 2008 | 2 Comments »
I’m going to join this thread of discussion. The discussion starts at Feministe with Do Jerks get laid more?, which is a discussion on some peer-reviewed pychology research on college-age men and “dark traits” affecting their number of sexual partners. It continues in Smart Girls who do it: Why “nice” guys don’t get laid as [...]
FICTION: The Jet-setter, Part II
Posted in erotica, fiction, sex, tagged erotica, fiction, hotel sex, lesbian, sex, vibrator on June 18, 2008 | 6 Comments »
PDF * Part I * Part III
This is one of the few cities I go to where I don’t stay in the conference hotel. Montreal. City of Festivals. This city has far too much character to stay in a newly constructed, expensive, and utterly generic conference hotel. With 10 hours of jetlag [...]
Following up on an issue from my last story
Posted in erotica, fiction, sex, tagged condom, erotica, female condom, fiction, safe sex, sex, sex writing on May 30, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I’m pondering a question. In my latest story, which I published last night, I originally published it without any kind of protection being explicitly mentioned as used during the sex scene. It didn’t seem to fit anywhere, and I usually let my characters drive my story rather than my socio-political views. I [...]
